Is it a big deal to have HSV-1?
Millions of people have herpes, and plenty of them are in relationships. For most couples, herpes isn’t a huge deal. Try to go into the conversation with a calm, positive attitude. Having herpes is simply a health issue — it doesn’t say anything about you as a person.
Why is HSV-1 not a big deal?
Herpes is spread by skin-to-skin contact. It’s highly contagious and simply not that big of a deal. Herpes-positive advocates like Loanzon are doing their best to help give people the information they need to protect themselves, but also to understand how common this virus really is.
Should I disclose I have HSV-1?
“In order to help decrease the spread, it is important to disclose any STI (including herpes) to any sexual partner, so they can make the informed decision to proceed or not,” Dr. Gelow said. “Being able to freely talk about these conditions makes it easier to disclose to potential sexual partners.”
Can you still date with HSV-1?
Having the herpes virus does not mean that your dating life is over. There is no reason you cannot continue meeting and dating people, as long as you’re willing to be open and honest with them about your diagnosis.
Should I disclose HSV-1 before kissing?
Recap. HSV-1 is highly contagious, so if you have a cold sore, it’s important to mention it to your partner before you kiss or have sexual contact.
How do you live with HSV-1?
Life Goes On Brayer encourages the same safe practices for both oral and genital herpes: Don’t share personal care items. During outbreaks, avoid infecting others. For genital herpes, forgo sex or use condoms from the first signs of an outbreak until the sores clear up. Also consider your communication options.
Can you get rid of HSV antibodies?
There is currently no cure or preventive treatment for the herpes infection. If a person gets either form of herpes virus infection, they will have it for life , whether or not they experience symptoms.
Should I cancel a date because of a cold sore?
The short answer is that it’s not. In general, it’s best to wait until after the scabs and sores completely disappear before you kiss someone or engage in oral sex. This is because the herpes virus can continue shedding in the late stages of a cold sore healing, even if there’s no viral fluid present.
How do I tell someone I have HSV-1?
How to Tell Someone You Have Genital Herpes
- Do You Need to Tell Them?
- Before You Tell Them, Practice.
- Don’t Overthink It.
- Choose the Right Moment to Chat.
- Tell Them Directly, But Not With an Apology.
- Put Genital Herpes in Context.
- Offer to Provide More Information on the Virus.
- Let Your Partner Think Before Making a Decision.